They say real men don’t cry,
Growing up I heard real men don’t ask, they take,
I kept hearing this, but never got any answer when I ask ‘why’.
Boys like me learned to be fake.
Real men don’t blah blah blah,
the list will keep going on,
Raising us right or bringing us down?
Molding us into Kings,
With a throne of multiple personalities.
Who weep before the mirror confessor,
Because how a weak man will handle responsibilities?
Keep pretending to be okay,
Even when not.
You should at best be angry but never sad,
As it is effeminate. (What an irony)
Encourage fellow men to shed those mute tears,
That never drops.
Beyond that tippy tear of an iceberg,
You will find the “real man’.
– Mahesh Mali
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True! Men and women are equal! If it is OK for a girl to cry a boy can also be! ~♥~
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Exactly!
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I agree!
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Our society is built on preconceived foundations which are moulded by “real men”. I fail spectacularly in their notions, and thank you for writing it down. Emotions aren’t gender specific, it’s about high time that others learn this.
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Yes, Ganesh, it’s high time for people to accept the truth!
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Ganesh is my dad’s name, I prefer karthigeyan or karthik🙂
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Oh, sorry man
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Very well said 👏👏👏
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Thank you, Vani 💛
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You’ve beautifully portrayed the sad reality of society. Thank you for posting this ♥️
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Thank you, Niharika 😊
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My pleasure sir!
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Love the last part with the iceberg. 💐💞💫
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Hey Calu, Thank you for stopping by 🙂
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Very well said and nicely written 👍🏻👍🏻
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Thanks, Dulcy!
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God didn’t associate particular emotions of code of conduct for different genders, we(society)did!!
So it’s our responsibility now to break through all these bullshit perimeters set for men and any other community
Why do we always need to see everything from gender perspective?
Why can’t we just be humans who have equal emotions and right to express them
Must needed one!!
Thank you for taking this up
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Society has developed many social biases and preconceived notions regarding different genders, castes, regions, etc. And those are now so deeply rooted in the majority of people’s brains that anyone who doesn’t fit into that narrative is labeled shameful.
Thank you for sharing your views!!
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What an outstanding post !! I completely agree with you Mahesh !! You are one of the most wonderful writers I have heard from in this blogging journey!! Keep writing ..
happy blogging
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That’s a huge compliment. Thank you so much, Kripaa 😊
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That’s what u deserve ☺️
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Great post! Crying is very much a human thing to do – not only a female thing. I mean of course it is! Why else would evolution have come with crying if not to help us feel better when dealing with grief! The science shows there are a huge number of benefits to crying including increasing your sense of well being. Wishing you well Mahesh 🙏
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Unfortunately, some people don’t get it. They think it’s a sign of weakness. Hope such stereotypes will fade away in the near future.
Thank you for stopping by!
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Beautifully written 👍
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Thanks!
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👍👍
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Sad reality, so beautifully written
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Thank you, Anamika di ❤
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Well said mate.. Men do feel sadness…
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Thank you, buddy!
Yes, Men are also human.
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Awesome
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Thank you 🙂
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😊😊
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Exactly, well said..!🙌🏻
People should understand men having feelings tooo unlike women..!❤
After all, its important to break the sp called superstitions of this patriarchal society ✌🏻
Great work..!😁
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Thank you, Akshita 🧡
Sorry, I don’t how I missed your comment earlier.
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That’s okayyy mahesh😊😊
Btw, this was quite a piece..! And the call of the hour too🙌🏻
It was my pleaure reading 🥰
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✌🙏
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Thanks 😇
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Great poem!
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Thank you!!
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Undeniably Yes !!! I agree this is rare and men out there should feel this way too
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Hey Selena, Thank you for stopping by!!
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My PLEASURE ❤🌸
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Thank you 🤟🏽
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This is a very good poem that I can relate to well. Oppressing emotions just makes you weak.
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This is so nice!! 😀
Hey, I nominated you for The Liebster Award, hope you don’t mind 😀 check it out here
https://nehalsays.wordpress.com/2020/10/04/liebster-award/
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It’s so nice of you to consider me for this! Thank you, Nehal 😊 But, sorry, I don’t do award posts.
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Oo 😮 alright then, no worries 😬
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Toxic masculinity definitely acts like termites in the society and we need to realize that. Lovely read Mahesh.
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Thank you!
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Excuse me but men who are tough enough to cry and let their feelings shows are bravest man in my eyes.
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They are indeed the bravest ✌🏽
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and the real men didn’t give up💪
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Just patriarchal and male chauvinistic stereotyping of the worst order that asks men to stifle their real selves! An important point very well made!
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Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts!
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